Most trans people are really tired of being asked questions about their bodies, and actually, no one likes being asked about their genitals. After the first two days, it was uncomfortable, but it got better. Some of my friends didn't believe me that I get wet; I get soaked when I come. I know that it can work. She started looking like a vagina instead of a little mess of skin.
Post-op trans women are encouraged to adhere to a regular regimen of dilation, a process that involves inserting a stent into the vagina for an extended period of time.
Yet even without a surgical procedure, transition can alter the experience of sex in physical, mental, and emotional ways. Sign up for our weekly newsletter here. It's very depressing.
Who are they looking up to?